Tuesday, December 30, 2014

NO COMPARISON


TO COMPARE, IS TO IMPAIR

 Daily build up your confidence in yourself- and in your God too. Comparisons will do you one of these two things: Either it takes you to the bosom of self pity and doubt or the abattoir of pride. When you compare yourself with people seemingly better than you, doubt sets in; and, in the words of William Shakespeare, “Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good that we oft may win by fearing to attempt.”

 

Franklin Roosevelt was of the opinion: “The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today”. Always remember the words of Alexander Dumas who said, “A person who doubts himself is like a man who enlists in the ranks of his enemy and bear arms against himself” - nothing could be more disastrous than that. The bloodiest wars have always been civil wars.

 

Pride is not any kinder. When you keep comparing yourself to those you think you are better than, pride sets in. Never forget, God hates pride! Apostle Peter wrote in his epistle, “God resists the proud (1Pet.5:5). King Solomon said, “When pride cometh, then cometh shame (Prov.11:2KJV). He went further to observe: “Pride goes before destruction (Prov.16:18KJV). Jeremiah himself prophesied, “The proud shall stumble and fall; and none shall raise him up (Jer.50:32).

 

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                                                PREFACE

Only a few are oblivion of the fact that Kenya is the hub of animal and wild life. A tourist to Kenya was once shocked to a frazzle when he saw a little boy controlling elephants. He was startled by the fact that these huge creatures could be tied down with a little rope tied to their front legs. There were neither chains nor cages. Although it was quite obvious that the elephants could break loose from their bonds at will, they didn’t.

While this tourist gazed in disbelieve, the trainer leveled up with him. He walked up to the trainer asking how he came about such magic. “It’s not a magic”, began the trainer, “when they were very young, and much smaller, we used the same little rope to tie them. At that age, the rope was quite strong enough to hold them. After several fruitless efforts to break away, they gave up. As they grew up, they were conditioned to believe they can never break away. They still believe the rope can hold them. Thus, they never again try to break free again”.

We may find the above story very laughable, yet many of us are like those elephants. Many today have permanently packed their bags in inaction just for a little act of opposition they once faced. Many have chickened out at the middle of the road just for a minor obstruction. No one expects a problem but it comes, often without warning. Our role and natural responsibility is to prepare always at all time.

God often doesn’t shed us from problem but rather gives us the grace to progress through them. Advancing through adversity may sound ridiculous, but it takes the ridiculous to birth the miraculous works. He has already assured us that he won’t allow a headache bigger than our head to worry us. God give us triumphs through trials, advancement through adversity and his crown in the cross lodge.

King Solomon once complained, “The wise dieth as the fool dieth” (Ecc12:16B). Yes as it happens to the sinful fool, it happens to the saintly wise. Although he was right, the preacher turned outrightly wrong when he deemed it vanity and a vexation of spirit. What happens to a man is not the end of the story; neither is it as important as what he does with what happens to him. Life is full of actions and its opposite reactions. Both may have the same experience, but what he makes happen with what happened to him is what separates the wise from the foolish. A successful life, said Edison Thomas, is 10% inspiration and 90% perspiration. My Bible says and I believed it, “A righteous man may fall seven times but seven times he shall rise again”. That’s the dividing factor. The wise falls, just like the fool; but the measure of grace and ability to bounce back is not equal in both.  Problem leaves the fool bitter but the wise gets better by it.

Every man’s life history is comprised of two headings: Your challenges and how you handled them. How you handle your challenges determines what it changes you into. Challenges are chances and channels for changes-whether they are positive or negative changes depend on the individual’s approach to them.

Real men neither resist changes nor are they resisted by changes. Adversity is an apparatus for advancement. As no skillful workman quarrels with his tools, only failures and indolent men avoid or complain of adversity. Indeed, there is hardly anyone alive who has not at one point or the other stumbled into adversity. It is like an unwelcomed visitor that forces its self unto our lives. No one wants it, yet no one can merely wish it away. Yet, adversity is a two facetted visitor whose outcome of its visit depends largely on the host. James Russell Lowell captures it best when he said, “Mishaps are like knives that either serves us or cuts us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle”.

 Failures and adversities are what you make of them. In the words of William Arthur Ward, “Adversity causes some men to break and others to break records”. Lord Byron in his days called adversity, the first path to truth. Writing on adversity, Horace observed that success in the affairs of life, often serves to hide one’s ability, whereas adversity frequently gives one the opportunity to discover them.

The truth remains that nothing advances one like adversity. Like the water test in the days of Gideon, adversity is an acid test that separates those who only wanted to from those who are determined to succeed. Lord Chesterfield once said, “A man of sense is never discouraged by difficulties, he redoubles his industry and his diligence, he perseveres and infallibly prevails at last”.

This book will blow open your mind to see how you have been sitting on a well yet wailing of thirst. If well studied and religiously followed, it will advance one from one’s pitiable state of adversity to an enviable height of success.

 

PROBLEMS ARE OPPORTUNITIES

 I don’t want to ask again what happened to you. What happened to you is not as important as the opportunity you make out of it. What you make happen with what happened to you happens to be far more important than what actually happened. Great men build castles with the bricks life challenges throw at them.

The life of Saul cum Paul gave me a mind blowing lesson. Despite his gruesome torture, persecution, challenges and frequent reoccurring jail terms, Paul wrote 1/3 of the Bible’s New Testament. Today, with the Bible as the fastest selling book in the world history, Billions of people have read and are still reading about Paul. His books, long after his demise, have been shaping people’s lives aright.

Pilgrim’s Progress was written while the author languished in prison. During Beethoven’s pit of deafness, the world best music maker and his music were born in him. Christ’s life was cut short at the cross of Calvary, but that made Him the name above all names.

Stop telling people what happened to you, tell us what you made happen with what happened to you. Adversity is a school. Fail all the way to a successful graduation if need be. The problem is not in the failing but in the refusal to keep trying.

The truth is that most great things that last are always born out of great groaning. The name Job is today perpetually famous as the life and time of Mr. Job of Uz occupies 42 whole chapters in the Bible – many thanks to adversity.

Polish your determination and trust God again. God turns disappointments, delays, setups and setbacks to a stepping stone to your glorious throne. Always look out for the positive side of every situation. Never forget this: Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. It all depends on your outlook. Two men saw the same cup, one said it is half filled, the other said it is half empty.

A bend in the road is not the end of the road, unless one fails to take the turn. Stepping out of a university after six years without a certificate induced an urge within me to obtain three degrees instead of one. At the end of three years in another region, I did not only obtain three professional degrees, but did so in the three best universities in my country.

Adversity pays. It is like a divine jet with which those who understand its intricacies advance to a glorious height.

Life has thought me that God is the best master chef ever- little wonder he promised to provide our daily bread! Best chef. He garnishes our great success stories with little doses of failure. No wonder you will always pass failure on your way to success. You will.

Divine success is like two slices of bread with failure sandwiched in-between. Failures, like sandwiches, make the bread of success so sweet and palatable. A wise man enjoys success as much as failure and he wisely learn greatly from both. I am yet to see a failure or adversity that never left me more successful and better placed for something bigger.

 Even if you wish life were a bed of roses, do not forget that roses have thorns. It is the rose we focus on and appreciate never the thorns. Yet, there can’t be roses without some thorns. That is why all the great men in the world history are those who managed their failures and adversities effectively.

 Indeed, no doubt about this, big shorts are just but small shots that kept shooting. Saints are sinners that kept going. Often, it takes multiples of failures to give success -ask Mich Ns. To keep trying, that is the secret of success.

 

NO MONEY, NO PROBLEM

If you still see poverty as an excuse for non-success, then you are yet to read about the man called Jimmy Carter. A onetime American president and a former governor of Georgia, James Earl Cartar, Jr was born on October 1, 1924 as the oldest of four children. At the time of his birth, his poor parents lived in the plains of Georgia, a farming community of a paltry 600 people.

Jimmy’s father lived and died a peanut farmer and storekeeper. Yet Jimmy managed to become the first member of his clan to graduate from college (in 1946) and subsequently became American president in 1977.

Oprah Winfrey’s family was so poor that even the poor in her neighborhood prayed earnestly that God would remember Oprah’s family. One day, a waitress confronted Bill Gates for giving her a $1 tip when his (Bill’s) son always hand her $100 and above. Bill Gates simply answered, “My son is the only son of the world richest man. I am the son of a wood cutter!”

John Logie Baird (1888-1946), a Scottish engineer and television pioneer, wrestled with both poverty and poor health. By 1925 he was still living from hand to mouth, supporting himself as a shoe shiner and a razor blade salesman. Yet, through relentless effort and a strong determination to succeed, he invented the first commercially viable apparatus to transmit and receive visual moving images.

What of Elvis Presley (1935-1977)?  The great Tupelo Mississippi born entertainer was a mere truck driver until Sam Philips signed him up. African richest man and industrialist, Aliko Dangote was so poor that he could not initially afford a formal education. He had the brains but his background kept him barred from school gates. He started his very first business with a little sum he borrowed from his uncle.

Joe DiMaggio (1914-1999), the greatest hitter and center fielder in baseball history, was born and raised by a poor, immigrant fisherman. Sylvester Stallone, the 1946 New York City born actor, famous as Rambo, was once an ordinary cleaner in the lion cage of a zoo. He met with little success as a prize-fighter and later authored many film scripts that impressed no one except himself-until 1975. Stallone will later tell the press: “I am not the smartest or most talented person in the world, but I succeeded because I kept going and going and going”. That’s the spirit! 

Refuse to be stopped. Never allow temporary lack to shove you from seeing the big picture of your great destiny.  Remember Abebe Bikila (1972-1973)? The Ethiopian born Olympic gold winning athlete was so poor that he couldn’t afford a canvas. He ran and won the 1960 Olympic game marathon in Rome, bare footed!

Boris Yeltsin (1931-2007) was the man who signed for the breakup of the USSR and also led the famous transition from Communism to a Capitalist democracy in Russia. Born in Sverdlovst Oblast, Boris was a poor son of a poor peasant farmer. His grandfather, a once prosperous peasant farmer, had lost almost everything during the reign of Joseph Stalin.

However, Yeltsin found purpose from what his father and grandfather went through under communism. Poverty shaped his political thoughts. His overriding passion and lifelong aspiration became to put an end to communism. This landmark he finally achieved on December 1991 despite a long battle with ill health and heart diseases plus political oppositions.

Mao Zedong (1893-1976) was much like him. The foremost Chinese communist leader of the 20th century was so poor that the poor called them poor. Yet Mao rose to become the principal founder of the People’s Republic of China.

Saddam Hussein (1937-2006), a former President of Iraq (1979-2003) was not only born poor, in a poor faming family near Tikrit, Saddam was raised by his widowed mother single-handed.

Heard of Amadeo Peter Giannini (1870-1949)? I’m sure you well know of Bank of America. Amadeo is its founder. Born in San Jose California, extreme poverty forced Deo to leave school at the age of 13! Having no true real parents, Deo joined his step father’s wholesale food business to make ends meet. Yet by the age 19, Deo had worked so hard that he became a partner in the firm and made it so big that he was quite wealthy enough to retire at age 31.

Three years into retirement, Deo lost his father-in-law and subsequently inherited a seat on the board of directors of a local bank. Thus, Deo developed a mounting interest in banking. Shortly after that, the once poor Deo later birthed the renowned Bank of Italy which metamorphosed into Bank of America.   

            Dwight D. Eisenhower (1890-1969) lived to become an American military leader and later the 34th president of the United States of America (1953-1961).Yet, Dwight was born by a poor unaffectionate road side mechanic. As a child, he worked assiduously alongside his brothers, to feign for their large house hold on a family garden.

 Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, wrote in his autobiography: “I am a poor high school dropout. I never had opportunity to live the luxurious life my peers lived. I always cry every night for I am financially and emotionally down. Emotionally down because nobody want to talk to a pauper!”

            As Denis Whitley will put it, “Simply accept yourself as you are right now- an imperfect, changing, growing and worthy person”. Weep not for you are a WIP (work in Progress). You are qualified. There is still just nothing good you can’t become.

 

 

 

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